Friday 28 June 2013
WHY I CAN NEVER DATE MY CLASSMATE
WHY I CAN NEVER DATE MY CLASSMATE
BY DENISE PALMER
Membership Level: Silver Total Points: 517
I personally do not advocate for classmates to date not even for the grades but simply because i want breathing space. If you have a boyfriend in the same class as you there will always be issues between the two of you especially if your partner is the possessive type. More so When it comes to the opposite sex plus others think that once you say yes then you are fully and completely theirs. People should understand that simply because you have found love in each other, the world doesn't stop rotating and therefore i won't shun my friends for you. Tell your friend that she already has a solution in her hands but she is only too scared to even think of it.
Membership Level: Gold Total Points: 1631
I usually wonder to myself how classmates even manage to date. It's no wonder it affect ones' grades. I imagine that a person will not ask nor answer any questions in class so that they don't appear stupid in their lovers eyes. The 'love birds' will not have sufficient time to study because they want to spend time together during their free time. After classes are over, instead of thinking of the day's lessons, on is busy wishing that tomorrow comes so that he/she can meet their love.
Membership Level: Bronze Total Points: 22
It depends it which kind of a date i don't see any harm of dating a class mate however this depends on the material talk of the date i personally date my classmate severally but for only one purpose education discussion if the date is for romantic purpose then it is not advisable
That is a very dangerous thing somebody can do.Think of somebody else but not your classmate.I have experienced this and trust me, they are extremely tempting yes, but take care!
Babygal Loyce
Membership Level: Silver Total Points: 803
I HAVE NOT IMAGINED DATING MY CLASSMATE. THESE RELATIONSHIPS NORMALLY DON'T LAST. YOU WILL GET BORED OF SEEING YOUR PARTNER FROM MONDAYS TO MONDAYS. THESE RELATIONSHIP DON'T GIVE ONE FREEDOM. IT MAKES PEOPLE TO SPEND MOST OF THEIR TIME TOGETHER AND THIS COULD LEAD TO FAILURE IN CLASS DUE TO LACK OF ATTENTION.
Brendah aroko
Membership Level: Gold Total Points: 4683
I personally believe that this kind of a relationship will be faced by many challenges and therefore will not be worth it in the long run.They will feel ridiculed by other class members and they might shy away from class. They might also exchange glance or even pass note to each other during lecturers which is very disruptive not only to them but also those sitting around them.
nimostarr
Membership Level: Silver Total Points: 213
i cannot say that it is really wrong to date a classmate but i would highly discourage it. it has more cons than pros. the only advantage i can think of is the fact that you get to see your sweetheart often but that's as far as it goes. first comes the divided attention, the concentration that you would otherwise put in your books is now divided and part of it is on your girl/boyfriend. hence the bad grades. you are always concerned about what your partner is doing and who he or she is talking to. furthermore, the monotony leads to boredom between partners, the small fights crop up, then the painful breakup with a person you will see daily for the rest of your school life. plus the awkward moments thereafter. now, will all these things going on, its only obvious that ones grades take a drastic fall. simply, do nat date a classmate.
Liz The Totalitarian
Membership Level: Silver Total Points: 518
Don't you think that there are many marriages whose origin is the in class? the other thing is that these marriages are very successful due to the fact that they are built on trust because there is no such thing as raising false alarm when one of the partners is in the company of other people.
jewel 92
Membership Level: Bronze Total Points: 15
i think it is a very tricky situation because the cons are very many, on the other hand not all classmate relationships end up making ones grades bad. It depends on how the two involved parties handle themselves. If they can manage to keep their love life out of the classroom well and good but if they can't then they should not try it out in the first place. Otherwise your friends grades may be dropping because she cannot be able to separate the two; her study life and her love life.
njeri moni
Membership Level: Gold Total Points: 1692
At this point education is very essential and you should consider your education first so,if you think that by breaking up with him will make you have good grades then its better to go for it.Otherwise there is nothing wrong with dating a classmate as long as you respect and love each other.
pinnie
Membership Level: Bronze Total Points: 65
its really hard and am talking out of experience coz i once tried and it really couldnt work........so just forget about it
mary19
Membership Level: Bronze Total Points: 25
to be frank,i tend to conquer with my fellows that this kind of a relationship is not the best.you may not concentrate on what brought you to school.i tend to think that this is the reason why most high schools have girls only and others boys only.like in a case where one is frustrated,surely your concentration is taken away and your esteem may be affected in some way.
Bmwai
Membership Level: Bronze Total Points: 18
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with dating a classmate though its a very tricky situation that requires a lot of maturity since that means you will have to spend a lot of time together in a fomal place. This should therefore be done in great caution. Both should therefore learn to carry themselves in an acceptable way by avoiding public displays of affection and exposiing their love life too much in public.
As for me, Diane, Dating a classmate will not only drop your grade but will give you less security and less opportunity. it is simply risky and not advisable.
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True... Dating classmates should not he encouraged. Save the date for after school!
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Been dating a classmate for three years and we ceremoniously broke up.. I can never advise anyone else to go for it.. True,at d start of it, everything looks so romantic and beautiful but when the troubles come, it's going to be really terrible.. So on a general note, I strongly say a No-no
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